A Voice Told Me To Jump Into Well, Kill Myself – Enugu Businessman Who Lost Wife, 4 Kids To House Fire Speaks Out

 

The man talks about a fire outbreak in his house that claimed the lives of his wife and four children in one night.

An Enugu businessman identified as Mr Philip Ogbodo, who is based in Jos, Plateau State, is a very heartbroken man at the moment.

He tells RAPHAEL EDE, in this PUNCH interview, about a fire outbreak in his house that claimed the lives of his wife and four children in one night

Tell us your name and what you do for a dwelling?

My name is Maduabuchi Ogbodo. I am a businessman based totally in Jos, Plateau State.

A few weeks ago, you lost your wife and 4 youngsters in one night time to a fireplace incident. How did it appear?The ugly incident happened on Wednesday, February 24, 2021. I call it a darkish Wednesday due to the fact I couldn’t consider what my eyes noticed that day. That day I become at domestic with my family after getting back from paintings. My spouse, Precious, our four kids – Rejoice, Michael, Samuel and Angel – and I have been cracking jokes. I played with my children even as my spouse was cooking. I had by no means played that a lot with the children. I by no means knew it become going to be the last time I would play with them. We have been playing game on my cellphone and they kept nudging me, “Daddy play game, play sport”. I changed into showing them funny cartoons on the phone and after that I taught them an antique music we sang returned in my primary school days: ‘O my home, O my home,while shall I see my domestic?’ As we sang, we marched across the living room. We have been simply having amusing that night.

 
At approximately nine.30pm, my spouse knowledgeable me that the meals for my little youngster, who became approximately a 12 months and 7 months vintage, had finished. She stated she forgot to inform me in advance. I taken into consideration sending my first daughter, who became 11 years, to go and get it, however when I checked out my watch and realised that  it became nine.30pm, I decided it turned into higher I went to get it myself.

So, I went out to buy the meals however at the same time as returning domestic, I heard the voices of humans watching a soccer fit involving Real Madrid at a viewing centre close to my house. Though I love looking soccer, I had no longer deliberate to go watch the match that night. But as I changed into going domestic and the voices at the viewing centre attracted my interest, I determined to hurry domestic to drop the child’s food that I went to shop for and then go back to the viewing centre to observe the match. This turned into some mins to 10pm and by then we had had dinner. As I dropped the baby’s meals and wanted to exit, my kids persuaded me not to go out however to allow us to retain our play. But I told them I turned into tired and that I might go and watch the healthy because they wouldn’t permit me to sleep besides if I stayed in the house. I informed them to visit mattress; already their mom had long past to bed. The children insisted I should live again to continue to play with them however I pressured them to visit their room and sleep. The 3 older youngsters have their personal room whilst the toddler sleeps within the equal room with the mom and me.

 
After forcing them to go to mattress, I went out and locked the door. I went out to observe the soccer match, no longer understanding that I could in no way see my family again (weeps).

What took place to them?

After the match ended, I changed into going domestic however I noticed a crowd of humans coming towards my course and I changed into scared. A lot of thoughts came to my mind. I changed into wondering if there was a combat or whether hoodlums attacked the place. You recognize the security situation in Nigeria, and mainly Jos, Plateau State wherein bandits every so often assault communities, is not predictable.

I determined I might sluggish down a bit to understand what become taking place. I saw someone walking in my path and I waited. When the individual were given close, I asked him, “Bros, why are you running like that? What is the hassle?” The individual said a house became on hearth. I said okay and determined that I could rush down there to peer how I should lend a hand to position out the hearth. As I became going I saw every other man that I knew and I asked him approximately the burning residence. But he told me, “Oh! Bros, it's miles your own home oh!” I didn’t apprehend that he changed into truely relating to my condo; I concept he turned into speaking about any other condo in my compound. But on getting domestic, I couldn’t believe my eyes – my rental were completely razed down. I stored shouting, “No! No! No! Is this a dream?” There turned into no way to enter into the apartment. What were given me greater scared become that it became most effective my condo that turned into on hearth.

 
What type of constructing is it?

It is a -bedroom flat bungalow. I tried to enter the house but there was no manner. I noticed that people had already made a few strive to interrupt the door. After a few effort, I was in a position to break the door further and I then went to the protector at the windows and tried to break it but it became very difficult. All that was on my thoughts become a way to get into the residence and keep my circle of relatives. I didn’t listen some thing that people have been pronouncing around me. As I tried to dash into the residence a hand pulled me back. I shook off the hand and proceeded in but every other hand pulled me back. At that factor, some of humans had rushed in the direction of me and they carried me out of the building. As they carried me out, I became suffering to free myself. I become wondering why they were protecting me again when my complete own family became trapped in the burning residence. But they stored telling me to calm down. I noticed one of the men and women that I watched the soccer healthy with on the viewing centre and he requested me if that become my residence on fireplace. He broke down in tears with me. I didn’t know he took the threat however he went into the burning house and taken out my wife. He advised me that she became nevertheless respiratory. I checked and saw that she changed into genuinely respiratory but she was very weak.

A pastor added his automobile and rushed her to a nearby health center. The different character rushed inside the house once more and taken out my little baby – my Angel – who was sleeping beside my spouse before I left to watch the fit. The toddler had died. The different 3 youngsters, who slept inside the identical room, had already roasted in the fire. The equal person similarly delivered them out.

What brought on the hearth?

I don’t recognize. When I left the house, there was electricity outage however whilst returning I saw energy mild in the neighbourhood. I simply can’t tell what happened because if it was an electrical fault, different flats might were similarly affected.

What is even extra unexpected to me is how the fireplace commenced and stopped at just my -bedroom flat. While my complete condominium become razed down, the fire did not affect any other condominium in the compound. Again, the fire burnt the whole lot inside the house, along with the mattresses, the sofas and the ceiling but the roof became intact. That is one mystery that I am still seeking to recognize.

 
I can’t apprehend why a residence will be on fire and the 2 fuel cylinders in the kitchen did not explode; I am still amazed that a generator with fuel did no longer trap fire even if the whole lot round it got burnt. It marvels me what type of hearth it was. That is why while human beings inquire from me what occurred I tell them I don’t understand. Whatever happened is open to God who is aware of every mystery. That night what came to my thoughts turned into to head and kill myself. A voice got here to me and told me to jump inner a nicely and kill myself. And that was what I desired to do earlier than a person got here to me and stated, “Don’t cry; do you understand that your spouse continues to be alive and you could nonetheless produce other kids?” When the character said that I got endorsed after which began going to the sanatorium to peer my wife.

 
In what state become your spouse when you purchased to the clinic?

When I got to the clinic with the help of some human beings, I heard my spouse’s voice saying, “I need to look my husband,” again and again.  I at once gathered energy and I went over to her mattress. On seeing me, she threw her arms around me and we hugged. She asked me where the kids were, again and again. And I instructed her time and again that they were satisfactory. She informed me that fire had affected certainly one of her eyes and that she couldn’t see in reality. I told her to relax and relax, assuring her that the whole lot would be o.K.. She asked me to hope for her – my spouse became a person who believed in my prayers however my prayer could not store her – I laid my hand on her and prayed for her and after the prayer, she calmed down. The doctors informed me to allow her to rest. But that changed into the ultimate time I might talk with my wife.

The following day once I were given to the health facility she become in a coma. She turned into on oxygen. I became just praying for her to regain consciousness. I become speakme to her due to the fact I believed she changed into listening to me until the doctor stated I ought to go away her on my own, so she could relaxation. The sanatorium later gave me a referral word that day to switch her to the Jos University Teaching Hospital. I informed the hospital that it might no longer be exact to take her off oxygen while shifting her to JUTH. I instructed them to hold her on oxygen that would sustain her until we would get to JUTH. I stated there might be gridlock on the road. The hospital ran around and got oxygen. At that point my spouse had died however I didn’t understand.

When they wanted to hold her, I turned into informed to stay returned but I insisted I desired to be there. Then someone known as at the cellphone and said I must come and spot the caskets that have been made for the children. That became how they tricked me to depart the health facility earlier than they put my wife in an ambulance. I went to peer the caskets made for the youngsters. When I noticed the caskets I shed tears and stated, “So, that is how my 4 youngsters will input caskets sooner or later!” I became asking myself if God turned into nevertheless in heaven but this turned into happening to me.

 
 
Before that incident, did you have any premonition of the tragedy?

On Friday, February 19, 2021 the kitchen in my father’s house in the village got burnt. They called me round afternoon that the kitchen became on fire. They stated the fireplace changed into so heavy that the pots inside the kitchen melted. These had been pots that had been used for years to make ‘okpa’. I stated that turned into a atypical hearth. But I thanked God that the fireplace was constrained to the kitchen; the principle residence became now not affected and no one died. I didn’t recognise that a larger hearth became coming.

Do you sense you can have stored the day if you hadn’t long gone out to observe football fit that night?

I don’t recognize. Maybe if I had listened to my youngsters and stayed domestic that night, God ought to have used me to save them. Or maybe I could have also died inside the fireplace. I don’t recognize, my life today is by the grace of God.  I sense the motive I am nevertheless alive nowadays and did not take my own life that night time changed into due to the fact someone informed me that my wife survived the hearth, that she became alive.

 
At what factor did you understand that your spouse had passed on?

Preparations were being made to bury the kids in Jos but I told my humans that I desired to take their stays home (Enugu) and bury them in my father’s compound. But my human beings insisted that the kids have to be buried in Jos and I conceded to begin with. I idea with that arrangement, I might be capable of stay with my spouse in the medical institution. But on the other hand, that night time I referred to as my uncle, who is a traditional ruler, and advised him that I would really like to hold the corpses of my youngsters home to bury. I instructed him I would recognize it if he granted my wish. Though he had earlier refused that request, that time he speedy granted it. He stated if I desired the youngsters buried at home, I have to depart Jos and are available home tomorrow. I informed him my wife was nevertheless within the health facility but he instructed me that there have been folks that might look after her. So, I agreed with my uncle and prayed that God could maintain my wife even as I went domestic to bury the youngsters. We took off on Saturday morning and were given home inside the night time. I didn’t know that the ambulance wearing my children also carried my wife’s frame. The ambulance and the vehicle I become in travelled one by one. It changed into whilst we got domestic that they knowledgeable me that my spouse become lifeless.

How has life been after then?

 
I lack the words to give an explanation for how a lot I leave out them. Sometimes sleep just elude me. I am continuously thinking about my wife and the kids and the way we lived luckily together as one own family. Though I wasn’t rich, they were my wealth and that they made me satisfied.