Once a couple is
engaged, they may think the hardest part (making the commitment) is over
but they will soon find, things have only begun.
Planning
a wedding takes time, patience and money and most couples will clash
over at least one thing or the other during the planning. Here are four
major fights:
1. Whose wedding is it anyway?
It's
common knowledge that women are usually the main planners of the
wedding because they would have imagined it from a young age.
However, some brides find out
just how important it is to their groom and they will argue over who
deserves the right to make most decisionL the man or the woman?
2. The guest-list.
A
groom may have up to 200 people to invite and the bride will also have
200 but their guest list will be a maximum of 100 people.
The fight will be over who should invite more people, who has a larger family, whose family put up more money and other details.
3. Bridesmaids/Groomsmen
Who
the bride and groom have on their train is very important at the
wedding. It has to be people they both like and want to be there.
The groom may insist his sisters need to be on the bridal train but the bride wants only her family and vice versa.
4. The wedding budget.
One
person might insist on a particular decoration or style of
entertainment that will be over the budget and there will be problems.
The
couple will have to find the balance between what the person wants,
what is absolutely necessary and how much they want to stretch their
budget. Before they reach this place, many fights will have occurred.
All
in all, the couple will have to reach a compromise and solve all their
fights amicably in order to keep the peace between them.
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