Now there's something I
want to say to all the
young girls reading this.
There's absolutely nothing
wrong with a man buying
you things, but always remember that if you
believe in yourselves and
your dreams, you work
hard and stay focused,
there's absolutely nothing
you can't buy for yourself. I'm not only buying myself
cars that I want, I'm in the
process of buying my own
house, with my own
money.
I made it on my own, in
my own way and on my
own terms. If anybody
ever tells you that the only
way you can make it in life
is by laying on your back, the person lied to you. You
don't have to do that. You
shouldn't do that. You are
strong, you are brave, you
have been blessed with a
talent, find yourself, believe in yourself, push
yourself...and never give
up. No money is sweeter
than your own money,
trust me. You can do it. Yes,
you! You can do it. Just be patient, pay attention and
work your butt off.
It's not easy trust me...if
you think I had success
overnight, you thought
wrong. November this year
will make it eight years
that I've been blogging. Every single day! Before
then I was a model, I was a
model manager, I was an
events planner, I was a
columnist, I wrote a book,
then I became a blogger. I put my hands in so many
things because I was
determined to make it in
life. Finally one paid off -
blogging.
I'm not better than you, if I
can make it, so can you!
Just never think the only
option you have is men.
YOU are an option and once
you go to God and tell Him what you want to do and
He sees that you are serious,
He will lead you, He will
guide you and He will make
all your dreams come true.
Think about it, the people
who are successful in life
don't have two heads. Why
can't you be one of them?
You really can be. It's up to
you.
Finally, I will soon start my
'I Will Rather Be Self Made'
campaign where I will
mentor young girls and also help some of you start your own small scale businesses by financing it...so look out
for that. I will make an
announcement on this soon.
